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Central Saint Martins MA Fine Art: Digital – Reflective Blog
I made some new self-portraits last night and this morning, experimenting with the bridal/wedding aesthetic. Here are some examples:
Things that worked well:
Challenges:
I’ve been trying to think with more depth or precision about what I like and don’t like about my photos, what makes them work or not work. But I get kind of annoyed and frustrated when I feel pressured to do this. The pressure is from myself but also in the context of the course because it’s important to reflect on our work. I’m not frustrated by being encouraged to reflect, I’m frustrated because I feel like I can’t articulate clearly enough why I think certain photos work and others don’t. Maybe I should try to write about them more frequently.
This one works:
Why does it work? It just feels right to me. Why? Things feel like they’re in the right place. The long exposure effect has placed a ghostly image of the phone receiver over my body in a way that looks right. The lamp in the background works and makes the photo better than if it wasn’t there, I think.
This one works to me because of the way my body is angled. It creates a small but, to me, significant tension. And I like the laptop being there, the image would be less interesting to me without it. I think the laptop kind of “ruins” the image which I like. Because the body element of the photo has a sensual quality and then there’s this blunt, inanimate, technological object next to the live body. I guess that’s been something I’ve been working with the whole time, the intersection of the live/sensual/sexual/corporeal/moveable with the inanimate – laptops, phones, hard surfaces.
In class we talked about the research paper. I keep thinking that I want to write about Francesca Woodman, I have felt an affinity with her and her work for a long time. But I don’t know what I would want to research specifically. Some thoughts:
I was talking to Martina about my project and she asked me if I would still have done this project/be using OnlyFans if I was still with my ex-boyfriend, who I broke up with not long after the course began. I said that I would still have wanted to do the project and that he probably would have been okay with it to an extent, or at least would have reluctantly “let” me do it. But that I would probably have needed to run things by him, check what he was and wasn’t okay with, check certain photos with him etc. And I don’t know if he would have been okay with me making custom content for subscribers. I don’t mean that entirely as a criticism towards him because I think it would be mostly reasonable to not be okay with something like this (depending on the reasons) especially when it’s being introduced into a relationship as opposed to being something I was already doing when we met. But it was interesting to think about the restrictions/parameters that this would have placed upon my work.
I spent some time with a man recently who called me one evening, I think drunk, and started asking me why I post photos showing my body on Instagram. He asked me to imagine how I’d feel if I had children one day and if those children were to see those photos what they would think. I told him the next day that I didn’t like the way he had spoken to me. He said he was sorry and that maybe he was “jealous”. “Jealous of who?” I asked. “I don’t know,” he said.
I was messaging with a male friend who I don’t talk to super often (this was quite a while ago) and I mentioned that I had broken up with my boyfriend. He said that he assumed we must have broken up because of the kinds of photos of my body I had been posting on my Instagram stories. What he didn’t realise was that I had broken up with my boyfriend, yes, the only boyfriend that he had ever known me to have, but that was a while ago and I was actually in a new relationship (my most recent). So I was in fact posting photos of myself while also in a relationship with a man.
It’s frustrating to feel like men are only capable of considering women and their bodies in relation to themselves, other men/people and in the context of ownership in general. I know there are men who are capable of more than this but I haven’t encountered many of those lately. There are some other recent situations I’ve been in that I would like to write about to illustrate this but they feel too personal to reveal at the moment and/or too emotionally gruelling to recount.